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Do You Love to Write?


“How does a writer go about becoming a writer?” Aileen Fisher asks.

“My answer is very brief: read, read, read. See how different writers use words

to make things happen or to point up a thought or feeling. Then write down some of your own

 words and hide them away for a while. When you take them out, read them aloud. 

How do you think they sound? In the meantime, keep reading!”


If you are looking for motivation, why not write for a contest? There are many contests open exclusively to unpublished writers, and though winning may be unlikely, writing to the contest’s specifications will be excellent practice. Who knows? You can probably use the article or story somewhere else at a later date.

“I can shake off everything as I write;

my sorrows disappear, my courage is reborn.”

—Anne Frank


If you are serious about pursuing writing with children in mind, order a free copy of ​​The Institute for Children's Literature​​​ writing aptitude test. They will give you an honest opinion of whether you have some aptitude for writing, and if you pass the test, you are eligible to enroll in their well-designed mail-order writing course.

”Just write every day of your life. Read intensely.

Then see what happens.” 

—Ray Bradbury


Listen to audio books. Find the great readers and listen to them over and over. You will soon hear what makes a good sentence.

And finally, “If there’s a book that you want to read, 

but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.” 

—Toni Morrison

Or Do You Love to Draw?​​​​

Some of the best advice out there for would-be artists is—draw, draw, draw.

Look around you and draw. Draw what’s right in front of you or copy your favourite illustrations. Don’t be afraid to try different mediums!


“Every artist was first an amateur.” 

—Ralph Waldo Emerson


If you are looking for help with technique, a great beginner’s book is Art for Kids: Drawing—The Only Drawing Book You’ll Ever Need to be the Artist You’ve Always Wanted to Be. For drawing people, it's a good idea to look for books specifically on drawing the clothed figure (although be cautious as some may still contain some nudity).

And if you are looking for motivation, why not check out the guidelines for submitting work to children’s magazines such as ​​Nature Friend​​​ or ​​Open Windows​​​?


“If you hear a voice within you say, ‘You cannot paint,’ 

then by all means paint, and that voice will  be silenced.” 

—Vincent Van Gogh


Give yourself a goal and announce it to your friends. For example: to share one new sketch per week.

Print off a fun list of weekly challenges like one pen and ink sketch a day or the penny-sized drawing...

Why Read Poetry? Why Write It?

Into your hands I place this book—

A thin, small book of poems—

With thanks to you if on your

                           [shelves

It soon may find a home.

But, first, I pray their simple verse

May each day warm your heart,

For if they do so blessed by God,

They will have done their part.

D. Tamminga

Poetry. Why read it? Why write it? Poetry can be encouraging, entertaining, convicting, and enjoyable. . .but so can prose. So, why poetry? Why not study prose?

“[Don’t] we all experience those moments when a hymn, a psalm, a poem can capture the unutterable mix of emotions we are feeling? …can bring our confusion into focus, can sift and sort and precisely echo what our own hearts can’t seem to relay to our lips?”  —Erin Evans of My Peace in the Puzzle

Poetry writing takes more discipline than prose. In a poem, one cannot ramble on. In a poem, the writer is forced to choose his words carefully. They are limited, and each noun, verb, and adjective must aid in driving home a point, firing up an imagination, evoking an emotional response, or bringing a reader to another time and place.

Reading poems from an anthology is a bit like eating chips 

it's hard to stop! There’s always just one more…


The reading and writing of poetry, then, better equips one to write prose, for one is forced to slow down over the sentences and think about every word, searching out synonyms in a thesaurus, weighing the emotional response certain words will produce, and pausing to delight in the repetition of sounds or syllables that give a bright ring to the poem! In short, you could say that reading and writing poetry is stocking up one’s arsenal with a wide array of vocabulary, while tuning the heart to the emotions that the right words can evoke.

The reading and writing of poetry, then, is a delightful discipline that serves to sharpen the writing of prose...

...Make space then for the lovely,

[pure,

Fill eye and ear and home

With harmony, truth, virtue, praise—

A glimpse of God be shown.

from "A Place for Art and Music"

by Doreen Tamminga

©2017 DOREEN TAMMINGA

Poems for Adults

Coming and Going in Prayer

Restless Flight


A Child's Prayer

My Complaint and My Joy

While Supper Boils Over

On Passing

My Feathered Friend

A Child's Walk with God

Cast Your Bread Upon the Waters

To Drive or to Lead?

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Welcome!

What you will find here are Bible stories for young families, and children's stories that put "hands & feet" on living to God's glory.  By God's grace, I am pleased to offer these free resources, along with poems for young and old!  Enjoy some ​children's songs​​​ or print off a colouring page for that special child before you leave. Be sure to check back for new stories and material as it is added!  For weekly encouragement follow ​​@aneverydayfaith​​​ on instagram or look for ideas below. May God bless you in your quest to provide Bible teaching material for the children in your life.

Thank you for visiting!

Doreen




March 2019


In creating, God’s children delight, for though stained and incomplete, they are acting in some small way like their Father. How will it be on that new earth when all creative work reflects the glory of its unlimited source, our Creator?

         

February 2019

I do love a well-written Bible storybook for the 2-4 year olds, but these littles can take in a lot from unabridged Bible readings too!   Here’s a simple way to make Bible readings much easier for them to comprehend: substitute pronouns with proper nouns, that is, replace “he” “they” “you” “thee” etc, with the person’s actual name. It makes a huge difference!      

January 2019

If you are looking for something different this year as a Bible reading plan, the printable over at www.bible-reading.com has a read the Bible in one year plan that arranges the books by topic. This means you read something from the epistles on Sundays, history on Tuesdays, gospels on Saturdays etc. And it’s not too late to start! The first reading is scheduled for the first Sunday of January 🙂               


December 2018

This year is fast coming to a close and may be bringing an end—or a fresh start—to your Bible reading plans. Why not add in a notebook this year, if you don’t? Yes, I love to write, but keeping a notebook with your Bible is helpful for anyone! There are meaningful verses to write down, prayer requests, and answers to prayer...

But a suggestion I once read in a book by Carolyn Mahaney has been really helpful to me: after each Scripture reading, write down two sentences. The first begins with “God...” and the second begins with “I...”

So my challenge is, try it! I think you’ll be amazed 😊!

November 2018

I found this helpful list of passages relating to the birth of Christ, in the back of my daughter’s Bible. They have been good to read through the Christmas season together!

Immanuel, God with Us, Isaiah 7:14
The Prince of Peace, Isaiah 9:1-7
The Stem of Jesse, Isaiah 11:1-10
The Branch of Righteousness, Jeremiah 33:15-18
To be born in Bethlehem, Micah 5:2,3
Gabriel appears to Mary, Luke 1:26-56
An angel appears to Joseph, Matthew 1:18-25
Christ born in Bethlehem, Luke 2:1-20
Visit of the Magi, Matthew 2:1-12
Flight to Egypt, Matthew 2:13-23
The Word became flesh, John 1:1-18
God sent his Son, Hebrews 1:1-12


October 2018

Listening to the leaves fall on the front lawn...yes, listening! With such a heavy frost, they were falling steadily the other day, each with an unmistakable swish 🍃

One day we'll all let go that limb of life--a swish--and this life's done. Until then, there are smoother seasons and harder ones. Here, a poem from a few Octobers ago...


Stretched

"Oh!" said the bow to the hand that bore it,
"I'm stretched far more than I can bear!
My cord will snap, or else my frame;
I wasn't meant for such hard wear."
.
The bearer asked reluctant bow,
"Did you not say you wished to see
A fleet of arrows fill the air;
A useful bow of mine you'd be?
.
"Then bend and bear the taxing strain
I lay on you with strong, sure hands
And know that, so, your arrows fly
Each fitted to fulfill my plans."

~D. Tamminga

September 2018

In the middle of a sibling squabble, it’s easy to look around and see someone else’s children getting along so sweetly. In the early days of parenting I would think, “What am I doing wrong here? What is she doing that I’m not?”

But time has shown the answer. “She has been to the mercy seat on behalf of her children....again and again.”

For it’s mercy and grace that they need in order to overcome that enormous “I” so they can get along with each other. And the most perfect parenting in the world can’t reach that inner place that grace can.

So it’s grace when I see four feet poking out from under a big book. And I grab my camera with thanks!          

              

August 2018

“The man who can read but doesn’t, has no advantage over the man who can’t read.” 

                 Attributed to Mark Twain    

July 2018

"Sunday" books. Did you have those growing up? Those books, or that shelf of books, from which you could choose your Sunday reading material? In a book study conversation last year we were discussing how peculiar this idea sounds: "No, my dear, you can read that book during the week but not on Sunday. It's not a book for Sunday." ?? Isn't this a little two-faced? If you shouldn't be reading it on Sunday, should you even be reading it during the week?

Like many things, however, on reflection the practice makes good sense... Yes, one's faith is to be carried out during the week as well as on "the Lord's day" (as John puts it), but our Lord knows how weak and forgetful we are in our walk, and bids us set aside one day a week to recall who we are and who He is! And it is the books that help us and our children do this, that become "Sunday" books☺. .

Isaiah speaks to this beautifully in chapter 58: "If thou turn thy foot from the sabbath, from doing thy pleasure on my holy day; and call the Sabbath a delight, the holy of the LORD, honourable; and shalt honour him, not doing thine own ways, nor finding thine own pleasure, nor speaking thine own words: then shalt thou delight thyself in the LORD; and I will cause thee to ride upon the high places of the earth, and feed thee with the heritage of Jacob thy father: for the mouth of the LORD hath spoken it."

Pictured above, is a book from a series by Patricia St. John that I'm excited to see back in print! Great "Sunday" material for kids. For myself, I read a variety of books, but a collection that has stood the test of time and speaks so warmly and biblically on a wide range of topics are Maurice Robert’s "The Thought of God," "The Christian’s High Calling," and "Great God of Wonders." They are just as good the second time around 😊 

                                     

June 2018

It is a strange feeling, this, having no idea what God has in store for your children’s futures, but called to prepare them—character, intellect, heart and soul…

May 2018

"Since it is so likely that children will meet cruel enemies let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage."   C.S. Lewis       

        

April 2018

Reading in Ryle these days. He has a gift for being clear and practical, even a century later! I found this insightful...

"Praying and sinning will never live together in the same heart. Prayer will consume sin, or sin will choke prayer."      J.C.Ryle in Practical Religion 


March 2018

Ready for the parallel? Life doesn’t come out as smoothly as some knitting projects do. Progress slows as we return for missed stitches and untangle knots. So there are times of running and other times it is all we can do to crawl on—but John Bunyan puts it best himself as he wrote centuries ago:

“I looked then after Christian, to see him go up the hill, where I perceived he fell from running to going, and from going to clambering upon his hands and his knees, because of the steepness of the place...”

John Bunyan, The Pilgrim’s Progress             


February 2018

"When night comes and retrospect shows that everything was patchwork and much which one had planned left undone, when so many things rouse shame and regret, then take it all as it is, lay it in God’s hands and offer it up to Him. In this way we will be able to rest in Him. Actually to rest. And to begin a new day like a new life."   Edith Stein


January 2018

January seems to be a time for planning, but often things don't go as planned--even when they are good plans! We fall back, then, on our Lord's words that "my thoughts are not your thoughts; neither are my ways your ways...." 

Lilias Trotter came up against so many obstacles in her inner city outreach in North Africa, and she expresses this faith so beautifully! "I am full of hope that when God delays in fulfilling our little thoughts, it is to have Himself room to work out his great ones."


December 2017

Advent traditions... No, I’m not thinking of the eat-one-chocolate-every-day-till-Christmas calendars I loved as a kid😄. I came across this idea a few months ago (so sorry, I don’t remember where!), but thought it was a neat idea!

Instead of counting down to Christmas, the kids can count up by adding one food item to a big box each day in December until the 25th when it is donated to a local food bank. You could even add a second box for gently used toys ⛸🥁to donate to a local thrift store, as well...  

November 2017

No, our life is certainly not made up of tidy, picturesque moments, nor our hours saturated in sweetness. We are working at living and shaping characters, and having our rough edges sanded is never a comfortable experience. However, I find it so easy to focus on the mess and strife and burden and difficulties involved in running a big household, that these pictures of grace poured out in moments here and there is a reminder to me of God’s goodness and overflowing blessing and support.


October 2017

A Secret Feast
John 4:34

When dinner on the table’s lean
And circumstances grim,
How can a smile line their face
And warm their hearts within?

God’s children have a secret feast
That seasons every dish,
A bread of life that fills their hearts
With more than they could wish.

The meat you do not see is that
They do their Father’s will—
Obedience which satisfies
Like nothing else can fill.

Its secret savour is the salt
That seasons every dish...
Sacrificing own desire
Gives more than heart can wish.

~ D. Tamminga 

September 2017

And just because....another Lilias quote ☺. An amazing woman, by God's grace...

"The things that are impossible with men are possible with God. May it not be that the human impossibility is just the very thing that sets His hand free?—and that it is the things which are possible for us to do that He is in a measure to let alone?"      Lilias Trotter


August 2017

I’ve been reading about Lilias Trotter in “A Passion for the Impossible,” and want to share a favourite quote...but it will be hard to keep it to one!

"It has come with a sense of utter rest, these last days, that God expects nothing from us in all this or in anything else for that matter—and it is when we have got to the point of seeing that God expects nothing from us, that we can expect everything from Him."    Lilias Trotter